Scam Overview

Romance & Relationship Scams

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Scammers build emotional trust over weeks or months before asking for money, crypto purchases, or personal information.

Annual Loss

$1.36B reported in 2024 (FTC)

Primary Targets

Singles using dating apps, widows/widowers, socially isolated adults

Objective

Solicit wire transfers, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or identity documents

Key Red Flags

  • Refuses video calls or in-person meetings due to constant “travel”
  • Requests help with medical emergencies, visas, or investment opportunities
  • Uses inconsistent stories, grammar, and photos sourced from the web

Sub-types & Playbooks

Common variations and tactics

01

Emergency Scam

Claims of sudden hospital bills or legal trouble requiring immediate funds.

02

Pig Butchering

Long-term grooming that pushes victims into crypto trading platforms controlled by scammers.

03

Military Deployment Scam

Impersonating deployed soldiers who cannot access their finances and need assistance.

Insights & Stats

Average Time to Ask for Money

21 days

Average Loss Per Victim

$14,000

Top Channels

Dating apps, Facebook, Instagram